Some of our favorite advice to both youth and parents from both parents and youth.
From Parents to Youth.
How to live a happier life.
1. You can’t please everyone
2. Smile when you say “no”
3. Don’t sweat the small stuff
4. There IS life after high school
5. Don’t lose yourself to others
6. You are not responsible for the happiness of others
7. Jesus will ALWAYS be there
8. Life goes on without your cell phone
9. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes
10. Your parents were once teenagers as well. Their advice is invaluable
11. Communicate in person
12. Find the time to disconnect
How adults find balance
1. Make time for God
2. Relationships are better in person, not facebook
3. Make time for yourself
4. Productivity vs down time
From Youth to Parents
Hardest thing for you to keep in balance
1. Academics
2. Athletics
3. Social life
4. Family
5. Religion
6. Significant others
7. Schedules
How to be a better parent
1. Actively listen to your child
2. Allow us to vent without trying to fix the problem
3. Take problems at face value
4. Support what is important to us
5. If you are mad at one child, don’t take it out on the other
6. Trust that we will make the right decisions
7. Be open minded towards our lifestyle choices
8. Don’t push us into activities we are not interested in
9. Communicate as a family
Both youth and adults can learn a lot from each other.
From being better communicators to finding the time to relax and rejuvenate.
So we challenge you to take these words of advice to heart and try some of them out! (Its possible they may actually be helpful)
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